Something definite about DD, is that it makes us think about everything in every detail.
I constantly find myself questioning and reviewing my emotions, rather than hiding away, as I may have done before.
This is good and bad.
It means that, in general, we communicate better. But it also means that I spend a great deal of my time thinking and pontificating about things!
I am lead and guided by him and he is lead and guided by the weight of responsibility on his shoulders.