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Wednesday, 29 January 2014

Pregnancy hormones and Dd

I have been really horrible lately.

I blame the poisonous chemical running through my veins - hormones.

It's like PMS on steroids!

I have been angry


I've shouted 


I've stamped my feet

And have been an all round pain in the arse!

My poor husband just hasn't known how to deal with me.

During the last pregnancies he has tried and failed and this time has decided to take decisive action.

He has decided not to stop spanking me but instead has devised a method that he believes will be less dangerous for our new baby.

I'm bent over the sofa, not over his knee and he uses a very stingy spatula! 

He thinks its less impactive than his ginormous hands.

Because it is so stingy it doesn't last very long. But yikes does it chafe!

He is being incredibly dominant and isn't taking anything at all. 

I think it is a good idea in theory but boy do I have to watch my step!

He has told me he wants me to be the perfect example of a submissive wife! We shall see if I can manage that and be pregnant at the same time. I will keep you posted.



16 comments:

  1. Hi, I'm Tori, just started following your blog.
    I don't know what it's like to be pregnant and in the DD scene, we started just after our third child was born. Sounds like your HoH has definitely made it so that you are still spanked through it all! Interested in knowing what other changes/adaptations you've had to and will have to make in that area.

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    1. Hi Tori, it's nice to have you here. The last pregnancy was a bit of a nightmare. And so was the start of this one Tbh. He decided eventually aftertrial and error, not to spank me last time. That meant he felt rather helpless. It also meant it felt like starting again when the baby was born. But it was only 4 months between birth and this pregnancy so I think he wanted to make sure he kept me in line. He always errs on the side of caution and thinks that he should give me some leeway because of my hormones but actually I think he has now figured out that I need the opposite. I need to feel his authority a the time. He is doing that now and things seem to be better. Even if i have been spanked! :(

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    2. I think for us it would be necessary for me to be spanking all the way through pregnancy and after childbirth. I get super stressed right after baby is born because I don't make enough milk for them. DD would really really help me then!
      Wow, four months after one you were pregnant again? I feel for ya mama!!

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  2. Oh goodness C! Bent over the sofa where there is no weight on your tummy and something stingy instead of thuddy...shouldn't harm the baby but dang!...will burn your bum!

    Would suggest that before you shout, stomp, yell, scream or any other unacceptable behavior, you take a deep breath and count to 10 and then 20 and then 30 and then...you get the picture.

    Hope you can be submissive without the sore bum! Sending lots of positive energy your way!

    Blessings...
    Cat

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    1. I will try. But it's so hard when i get going!

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  3. LOL, you really DON"T feel like yourself with raging hormones, do you? I was never cranky, but boy, if I got tired or hungry (which happened at least a few times every day!) I just felt like crying!!

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    1. No I feel like I'm going a bit mad. I'm so hungry too!!! I wish I didn't get cranky. C

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  4. Oh gosh C, perfect example of a submissive wife AND pregnant ... that sounds like an incredibly difficult combination. Wishing you and bottom lots of luck! :)

    Hugs,
    Roz

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  5. Well I'm no doctor...lol...the secret is out, but I'm sure the baby is fine whatever the position as it is floating around...that being said, I think it is a blood pressure thing people talk about. If yours is good....spank away! LOL.

    Yeah the cane to me is like what you describe. Man it stings. But sometimes it makes me MORE angry! LOL. Good luck C. Hopefully your horror moans will even out soon enough!
    willie

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    1. Yeah I know it's a blood pressure thing. It's ok at the mo! Must be the yoga!

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  6. I imagine if we did ttwd while I was preg with any of our 7 pregnancies I wouldn't have liked in the moment....but would have liked My Love to 'not take anything' and be more ontop of me...it would have also meant he would be even more focused on me and what was going on with me...and I would have felt even more looked after and protected. - not that he didn't do great and amazing!!!! But TTWD sure bumps it up a few notches, wouldn't you all say? It's a different kind of 'looking after' now.

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    1. Yeah it is that's true! 7 - Oh my! How on earth do you manage with 7 kids.

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  7. I love following your blog even though I am not in such a relationship. I wish you the best in your pregnancy and your marriage.

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    1. THank you, that's kind. Why not? - It is great when it's great!

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  8. CONGRATS to you and your husband! Two little blessings so close together. I don't think you will ever be bored! Lol! DD is an amazing thing. I know my husband would have been more than grateful if we practiced DD while I was pregnant!
    Yeah stomping your feet may not be a good idea, but a little papmering and the occasional crying session in his arms and on his shoulder(not spanking related) is OK, right? Lol!

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